With the advent of my newest project
Autodidactic, which premises itself on harnessing the power of "fate and irony," I thought it'd be timely to explain just what that means and how it is actually more literal than one might think. At its core, it's about setting up the least likely situations to always be in your favor, what others perceive to be your worst case scenarios to actually be your best case. You set yourself up such that the most ironic thing that can happen to you is the best thing that could happen to you, and everything else falls in line behind that. This is a lot of the thinking that bleeds into most of my endeavors, whether it be in my trading, planning my life, or even just making sure I get from point A to point B on time.
It sounds a bit like superstitution or voodoo, but it really is more about planning, psychology, and just staying ahead of the game. When planning any sort of event or organization, for example, the biggest mistake one often makes is leaving open that 0.0001% chance that things go terribly wrong. Instead take that and flip it on its head. Make the 0.0001% case the case where everything goes terribly right. In practice, I often *seem* like the more conservative risk taker on any team (despite my super left-field ideas and approaches to things), but when the unthinkable happens, it's to my favor. What better irony than the safest plans thriving in absolute chaos? And there's nothing to say you can't simply be so in control (or so impervious to a lack of control) that it just looks like you're passive when you've actually already set plans in motion to take over the world. It's about always knowing your edge cases and putting them in alignment with your goals. It's about eliminating chance from the equation and only leaving open possibilities that help your cause. When the unthinkable happens, you win, and when it doesn't, life just continues as usual.
The other aspect is just mental, when you declare the most absurd things with no expectation they happen, when you jinx or counter-jinx things, when people give up at the exact moment they should have doubled down, etc. This definitely sounds much more like superstition now, but think of all the situations in the past where you or your friends jinxed things and how often these ironic situations actually came true. Words have meaning, whether they leave a guilt chip in the back of someone's mind or make yourself doubt your best judgement (too good to be true, unwillingness to go against what you just said, etc). The key again is to let the things you think most absurd always be in your favor but also in a psychological aspect. If someone else is doubting something (often you), let them be on the losing side of the ironic outcome and not yourself. If someone is about to give up but thinks something will work out right as they quit, be on the receiving side of that luck. Sometimes, it's almost like witchcraft, where in order to ensure my success, I purposely make sure there are enough people thinking or making a claim they'll regret, where they unintentionally jinx themselves such that, in the (misleadingly) remote chance they're wrong, it leads an outcome most extremely in my favor. Think of famous last words; often times I purposely get someone to declare verbally the opposite of what I want just to jinx him. This extends to all other activities mental and psychological - trading, poker, etc. If someone is about to exit a trade they think they'll regret doing so, take that as a sign that trade will probably work. If someone thinks they'll fold a good hand, let that be in your favor if it comes true. Often times, my reputation in poker is that of a blind better with beginner's luck, when in actuality I'm letting my opponents self destruct against themselves. It's letting people's own irrationality and biases get the better of them... at least, that's the politically correct way of putting it.
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